Depression Proof your Mindset

Jul 5, 2009  |  under Financially Elite Blog  |  by Dwight Anthony

depressedI’m sure by now you are asking yourself, “What does Depression Proofing your Mindset mean?” Well, it has to do with the cognitive processes that we can go through to condition our minds to eliminate signs of depression or negative messaging that we can feel at times. In this world of taking a pill for everything, treating depression and other ‘psychological’ disorders has become a multi-billion dollar business each year. Psychologists are treating clients suffering from depression in record numbers. Interestingly enough, Suicide rates are also at the highest numbers ever, even dwarfing suicide rates that were recorded in the 1980’s. Why in a world where we have more opportunities and resources than ever are we falling more and more as victims of Depression?


 

Depression is a thought and feeling

Depression is formed as an ongoing, inner conflict when one cannot see a joyous or happy outcome in their future. They feel doomed and negatively affected. Staying in this state for long period of times makes it worse. Those staying in this low morale of state are prone to feelings of hopelessness and may even feel like hurting themselves and even suicide as a ‘quick out’. This is why physical pain can be associated with long bouts of depression because your mind starts affecting your physical body because your chemical levels of your neurotransmitters are totally off in your brain. Is there any wonder why certain people cut themselves to deal with their depression? Next stop is usually the doctor’s or psychologists’ office for a prescription of drugs that may treat the depression but at times makes suicidal thoughts worse. So, you then need a prescription that helps ward off suicide thoughts while treating your depression. It’s a vicious cycle, and those on prescriptions are then treated, but tend to have sometimes even worse side effects than the depression itself.

 

Controlling Depression with your thoughts

To combat your depression, you need a healthy dose of mind conditioning daily that includes meditation, visualizing happiness and success and positive affirmations. Depression lives in a diseased mind because our thoughts are negative in nature that allows depression to thrive. On the other hand, a well-conditioned and strengthened mind staves off depression and instead empowers the individual making them feel positive and giving them hope. Those most affected by Depression are those that allow the depression to take over their minds. Take control of your mind! See friends, watch a movie, go to a comedian festival or even laugh. In other words, do whatever it takes to actually break your state of mind. It is very hard to be depressed in a constantly entertained or humorous state of mind. Those teaching alternative treatment of depression know this. You don’t want to take horse pills for the rest of your life, right?

 

By all means, see a Doctor if you are seriously depressed

I recommend that if you have suffered severely for weeks or even months at a time that you at least see a doctor that specializes in treating serious depression. However, please also know that you can ‘wane’ yourself off your doctor’s treatment over time with the positive affirmations and conditioning your mind to control depression over time. It’s very important for you to start depression proofing your mindset as soon as possible. Work on conditioning your neurological programming from today.

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Guest Post by Srinivas of theSkoolofLife.com Blog on ‘Resentment’

Jun 27, 2009  |  under Personal Development  |  by Dwight Anthony

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Resentment is one of the most disempowering emotions in our lives. Resentment is a mental toxin that keeps the law of attraction from working.  When we examine people in our lives closely, we will almost always find some hint of resentment towards somebody.  More often than not, the resentment you feel is having a much more negative impact on your than it does on the person you resent. In college I had a roommate, who turned out not to be such a good friend. I resented him for almost 2-3 years after. But, in many ways, I was the one who one who suffered. Because of my resentment for this roommate, I blocked the possibility of many other friends and social experiences.

However, there’s more to resentment than just this. Let’s look at the thought seeds you water to grow this plant called resentment.  When you resent somebody these are just a few of the thoughts that might go through your mind:

  • I’m really angry at this person
  • This person is such a b*stard
  • I can’t believe this SOB did this to me
  • What did I do to deserve such a jackass for a friend
  • This always happens to me

Look at the pattern of thoughts there. It’s basically setting you up to ALWAYS being angry and having friends who are b*stards, jackasses, and SOB’s. One other thing to note is that thoughts seem to occur in clusters. Positive thoughts occur together, and negative thoughts occur together. Each type of thought leads to more of itself.  The power of what may appear to be a small negative thought like resentment starts to spiral out of control. The good news is that we can do the same thing with positive thinking. So, let go of resentment because it’s holding you back.

About the Author: Srinivas is a self improvement and personal development blogger that heads The Skool of Life Blog.  Learn more about his blog here.

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How to Generate Extra Income

Jun 25, 2009  |  under Income  |  by Dwight Anthony


moneyflToday I’m giving the tools you need to think about how to generate extra income in your life. Those that are a little more frugal in their lifestyle and want to be financially independent in the future are always thinking of ways to improve their cash flow or increase their income. Herein lies the problem, most people just ‘think’ about how to make money but most don’t follow through. If you are to generate some extra income in addition to what you bring home, you want to bring in that extra cash in the most efficient way possible. You must first of all if you are already doing some kind of work for free, ask yourself, “How can I monetize this work?” In other words, how can I presently make money out of a situation where I may be doing some work but not benefiting by not being compensated with money. However, this does not apply to charity work or work you have volunteered of your time for a good cause. You must also learn to give back for free. This makes you a philanthropist that will be valued by others that may need the resources.


If you cannot make money by work you already do and it is not charity, you might reexamine if it is even worth your time. Remember time is one of the few things that we all have the same of. We all have 24 hours in a day, it’s how we apply our time is what matters. After a self-check if you really are capitalizing for the best use of your time, ask yourself if there is something that you would absolutely love to do with some spare time that would boost your income levels and bring in extra money. You may find that you are an expert in sales training or copywriting and do some consulting on the side if you have a day job. Before doing any extra work, visualize with clarity of intention, where you want to go financially. You might visualize yourself financially free because you built a very profitable practice. You really need to see this in your minds eye and feel it. If you can put emotion into your thought, your subconscious will help work towards your goal. For a recap of goal setting, see earlier posts on goals.


The next step of generating some extra income is to start small. Give yourself little mini goals to complete and hit each month. For example, you might want to set a mini goal to bring in an extra 100.00 that month other than your normal income. For some, that may sound too high and others too low, so modify the amount according to your needs. If you can start small and bring in 100.00, you can certainly over time, bring in much more than that. Please just start small and hit your goal so you don’t sabotage yourself. When you hit your goal, reward yourself with maybe a movie or something. Don’t go and spend all of your money in one place, you are better off putting it in an investment or an account to get you financially free.


Most of all, have fun and be creative with your newfound money generating skills. Also, maintain balance with Life, Family and your own Personal Development and Hobbies. There is nothing worse than workaholics that worked their life away with money in the bank, but didn’t live life fully. Remember no one comes down to the end of their life and says, “Boy, I really wish I worked more!”. Take time to reflect and build your life little by little and enjoy the journey!

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